FIVE EASY STEPS ON HOW TO SUCCESSFULLY WIN AN ARGUMENT #2015

Argument is one of the basic element that occur in friendship, relationship and any kind of "bond between two people"  but the down side to argument is that ..... It's hard..... It affects us psychologically, emotionally and to add to it; gives us a really bad day. So how actually can you win one ?
Scientist proved that part of the brain gets dormant when we argue. So am gonna be writing on how to win any form of argument without stressing yourself or throwing a punch

THINGS TO CONSIDER WHEN YOU GET INTO AN ARGUMENT

• Influence them to see it from your own point of view rather than trying to prove them wrong. And how will you do that?....

No fighting

STEPS ON HOW TO SUCCESSFULLY WIN AN ARGUMENT 

 

Listen Actively

1.  Listen Actively: Yes, you have to keep quiet and listen to the other person. I know it's very sweet to talk at that moment (in fact, your blood will be boiling). But muster that strength to keep quiet so they can talk and hear what they have to say.

2.   Keep It Friendly: Smile !, flex those pretty cheeks of yours. You never can tell, the argument can end by doing just that. Similarly, smiling denotes a peaceful person. ( I won't want to punch a person smiling because that will be pretty callous and weak)

Valid argument

3.  Give Your Argument Validity: Explain in details the outcome of your own point of view and NOT why your idea is better. Best way to do this is to accept their own point of view; make it feel and look like you both are on the same side before you try to explain your own point of view.

Stay calm

4. Be Calm: Take it easy and slow. Relax, there is no need to rush;  keep a cool mind and if you wanna talk. Take strategic pauses. This will be better than raising your voice

confidence

5.  Confidence: Be confident enough to practice the four steps listed above.